Let's talk how to actually start without regret or discomfort.
Don't grab the biggest, buzz-iest, most intense toy right away, that's a fast track to "meh" or putting it away forever. Start small so you can enjoy discovering what your body loves.
Quick mindset & tips:
- Start with a toy that your wallet is just as comfortable with as you are, it'll be less pressure for you to figure it out and like it.
- Don't start at the top (toys or settings), overstimulation on the first use will land your new toy in the sock drawer for eternity.
- Water based lube is widely the safest choice for silicone toys, it doesn't react with or break down the silicones
- If the toys' function allows is try it out solo first to experiment with zero performance pressure or expectations.
- Take breaks if needed, if it's too intense dial it back until you're ready to build up, curiosity over perfection, and over stimulation will leave you more tense than when you started.
Building up slowly is usually the way to go for most toys, especially any clitoral stimulators. But hey some people do like to get right to business so to each their own. Its personal and unique to you just be sure you're in a comfortable space to be exploring and you'll have a good time alone or with a partner(s).
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