Entry Point Journal

Aftercare 101
Aftercare is the essential care that happens after BDSM play. Learn why it matters, easy aftercare ideas for beginners, and how to help everyone come back down safely and feel connected. Read more...
Safe Words & Consent: The One Thing Every Beginner Needs to Know First
Safe Words & Consent: The One Thing Every Beginner Needs to Know First
The most important thing to know before trying BDSM? Safe words and consent. Learn how to establish clear communication, choose effective safe words, and create a foundation for safe, exciting... Read more...
How to Get Into BDSM Without Ruining the Experience: Your BDSM Beginner Guide
How to Get Into BDSM Without Ruining the Experience: Your BDSM Beginner Guide
Curious about BDSM but worried about getting it wrong? Learn how to start safely and enjoyably with communication, gentle exploration, and beginner-friendly practices that make your first experiences exciting instead... Read more...
Kink vs. Fetish: What's the Difference (And Why It Doesn't Matter as Much as You Think)
Kink vs. Fetish: What's the Difference (And Why It Doesn't Matter as Much as You Think)
Ever wondered if what you're into is a kink or a fetish? We break down the difference in plain language—plus why the label matters way less than exploring safely and... Read more...
Going Deeper: Lube Types, Uses, and Toy Cleaner Hygiene
Learn about lube types and their best uses, from water-based for beginners to silicone for marathon sessions. Plus, why dedicated toy cleaners beat hand soap for keeping your toys safe and hygienic. Read more...
What to Look for When Buying Your First Vibrator or Sex Toy
There are a ton of toys out there from small to large to well... very large. Picking them out online or in person can get overwhelming. Here are some tips for buying your first sex toy. Read more...
Start at Level 1: The Right Way to Ease In (Mindset & Tips)
Don't grab the biggest, buzz-iest, most intense toy right away. Start small so you can enjoy discovering what your body loves without regret or discomfort. Read more...
Toys with a Partner: Making the Bedroom Open and Fun for Both of You
Introducing toys doesn't have to be a big deal or a threat. When done right, it can actually bring you closer—more communication, more trust, more shared fun, and often a better time for everyone. Toys aren't about replacing anyone; they're about adding new ways to feel good together. Many couples find they spice things up, help bridge differences, reduce pressure, and have your intimacy feel more playful and exploratory. If your partner has hang-ups due to perception, inexperience, or poor experiences, don't discount them trying to get yours. The bedroom... Read more...
Why Toys Are Totally Normal (Drop the Shame, Own Your Pleasure)
Why Toys Are Totally Normal (Drop the Shame, Own Your Pleasure)
Everyone does it (or wants to), and toys can just make it better, easier, or more fun. No shame, no weirdness. Whether you're exploring solo or with a partner, toys... Read more...